Saturday, August 16, 2008

Pets

Dear Pod, 

Pets are wonderful!  They teach us so much and make our lives more enjoyable.  Pets teach us that we all need someone to look after us from time to time ... that we all need attention and affection on a regular basis ... that for those special creatures in our life (human, canine, or otherwise), love is unconditional and never taken for granted ... that good food is one of life's true joys ... and that taking naps is most civilized and, indeed, essential for respectable living.  

The best thing about pets, though - and here I am thinking about dogs in particular - is that they help you understand that there are many different ways to experience our world.  Dogs are sentient creatures.  They perceive the world in much the same way that we do - they see, hear, feel, and smell (particularly smell!) their environment.  And in observing dogs perceiving and reacting to the world - be it the bustling around of the neighborhood, or the sights, sounds, and smells of the woods, or a strange and irresistible sound from outside - you begin to empathize with them - you begin to understand that our way of knowing the world is not the only way - that other, perhaps many others exist.  Like many simple and obvious things about life, this realization has profound spiritual implications.  Like pets, many wild animals are sentient beings, some of them possessing cognitive abilities similar to our own!  I believe that this realization reveals quite a lot about our human nature and implies much about being good stewards of these other species and their unique way of perceiving our shared world.

What it reveals about our nature is that we are indeed animals - creatures of this Earth.  We all share a common ancestor deep in the history of Earth and over time we've each evolved to perceive the world in a way that defines what we are and what we're capable of.  And here is where human exceptionalism - and by extension our solemn responsibility - becomes clear .... every other species, sentient or not, lives within the bounds of nature.  Their populations are limited to the available resources of their immediate ecosystems.  Humans alone have transcended this ecological constraint.  This truth is obvious but it implies that we have a very important responsibility to be good stewards of those wild species with which humans now compete for resources like land and water.  Not doing so with enough resolve - as continues to happen every day - predictably leads to tragedy:  wanton destruction of life, some of which perceives our world in a unique way!

Extinction is forever.  Human-induced extinction means that either we couldn't or wouldn't make room and accommodate other forms of life with which we share this Earth ... or that we were not even aware that our actions were snuffing out unique forms of life.  Pod, you will live in a world where meeting basic human needs - particularly those of the very poor - and leaving enough resources for wildlife to sustain itself will intensify.  Wildlife doesn't vote and generally the "constituency" for wildlife conservation is dwarfed by the constituency that stands to benefit in the short-run from a few more widgets or another gallon to guzzle.

So pets can be a bridge to the larger world of wildlife.  Throughout your life - wherever you are, whatever your circumstances - try to keep a pet with you.  It will help you make connections with other life on Earth that so many of us silly humans never seem to achieve - or if we do, manage to somehow let slip for something more immediate, more gratifying, and ultimately less meaningful.  By making such connections, you might just be inspired to defend a wild creature that really does need your protection and advocacy.  And this is to say nothing of the unbridled exuberance for life that pets can inspire in you - and often do!

Sunday, August 3, 2008

Work

Dear Pod,

Whatever you choose to "do" with your life, always remember that the opportunity of having had a choice is a luxury and a privilege.  If your life turns out to be anything like mine, you'll get a decent education - but you won't really begin to learn the important things about life until you take it upon yourself to seek them out.  Just remember that such learning can take place in a classroom, so don't take this as license to blow off your studies!  And just so you won't get the wrong impression - when it comes to the "important things in life," please don't think that there are answers out there waiting to be found, a path already blazed, an eternal truth revealed.  In a sense there are some such paths and ready-made answers - but they are merely academic until you experience them, until you discover them, and others, for yourself.

With luck, you'll stumble upon golden opportunities to find out what you're good at, what interests you ... what you want to "do with your life."  If you're anything like me, you'll probably bumble a few of these - but that is alright.  Perhaps those unexplored paths would have turned out to be dead ends - alternative lives better left unlived, or perhaps for another.  It's also likely that other chance opportunities will divert you from one path to another.  All to the good.  Follow wherever the sum of your mind, heart and soul lead.

Before I continue on the topic, I have an important diversion to share with you ... If I had not bungled a few of my earlier opportunities, then there would be no you.  There would almost certainly have been a child with whom I would have shared letters such as these - a child I would have loved no less - but it wouldn't have been you.  This was the same thought I had very early in life - if my mom and dad hadn't had me, then ... what about me? Would I just have been out there, floating somewhere in the ether, in space? - I remember thinking on my bed, in the old house.  It puzzled me about as much as a young boy ought to wonder.  I know now that if I'd not been conceived by precisely my mother and father at precisely the time I had been, and if a million other things didn't work out just as they had, then I wouldn't be me.  There are an infinity of lives to be lived - a fact that in no way devalues the uniqueness and worth of your own life, son.  Indeed, knowledge of this should make living even more special - you're the only person who's ever going to live your life.  There are no other yous out there floating, waiting to be born, waiting for their chance.  Carpe diem!

And as for navigating those necessary failures and chance opportunities and figuring our what "to do" with your life ... I'll leave that entirely up to you.  What? You thought I'd have sage advise on potentially lucrative emerging industries (one word  - "plastics") or moving words on how to save the world from itself?  Well, I'm not giving all of the answers away for free!  But I do want you to know that the work you choose should help to make others' lives better, and certainly not worse.  Also,  while starting out, it's useful to know that it is possible to do good for the world while doing well for yourself.  Since you won't be getting an inheritance, I suggest find a career that does.    

And one last parting word on the subject ...

Remember - when we speak of a path in life - it is metaphorical.  An actual path on Earth implies a beginning, middle, end -- starting and ending points.  Don't think of your life in such terms.  You came into existence at a distinct point in time.  One day you will no longer exists except in memories, however recorded.  Connecting these two points in time is the metaphorical path we're calling life.  Just don't think it has to be all that straight and narrow - and certainly not all "work."  A few purposeful detours - a deviation or diversion, even - might well lead you to what you'll decide is you life's work ... and maybe even your own little world of life and love, besides.